Becoming a Woman of Understanding

November 29, 2010 by  
Filed under Christian Life, Family Focus

By Nina Medrano –

Just days before I left town for a one-day business trip, the Holy Spirit brought a specific Scripture verse to my attention and prompted me to pray this verse for my life.

It’s my practice to read different versions of a Scripture verse to gain a broader understanding of God’s Word.  Proverbs 20:5 (NIV) reads that “The purposes of a man’s heart are deep waters, but a man of understanding draws them out.”  The Contemporary English version (CEV) reads, “Someone’s thoughts may be as deep as the ocean, but if you are smart you will discover them.”

Next, the Spirit led me to pray Proverb 20:5 for the co-worker who is to travel with me, whom I know only through e-mail. In obedience, I asked Abba Father to “make me a woman of understanding; to give me a deeper insight to the purpose and the deep thoughts of this co-worker; flood my heart with the light of your Word and Spirit so that I may focus clearly and confidently draw out the deep thoughts and concerns of this co-worker; give me godly counsel and advice; don’t let me speak from my own understanding but let every word that comes from my thoughts and heart be totally yielded to your Spirit; give me supernatural favor; let this co-worker sense your Presence in our conversation and let her trust you with the deepest thoughts that trouble her. In Jesus Name, Amen.”

The day of travel we met at the airport early in the morning. Our conversation began with work-related issues. It was not long before our conversation shifted to a more personal exchange of information. This opened the door for me to share my faith in Christ. My co-worker listened and would ask an occasional question but for the most part she remained silent. Our next opportunity to converse was not until the end of the day as we made our way to the airport for our return flight. Our flight was delayed. Silently, I prayed, “Lord, I surrender my thoughts and words to you.”

After sharing several experiences of God’s guiding hand in my life it was now time to board our flight. As we began boarding, my co-worker drew nearer to me and with tear-filled eyes she began to tell me her desperate need for God’s guidance and direction. Currently, she faces a major crossroad and must make some career choices that will impact her life and her family. Through the guidance of the Holy Spirit I was able to give her godly counsel and direction to her current situation. In a matter of moments the burden she was carrying was lifted off her countenance and a gently peace settled on her face.  Before we went our separate ways, my co-worker expressed a feeling of light-heartedness and an inner peace that she had not felt in a long while.

I cannot stop giving praise to God for sending us His Holy Spirit, who brings God’s word to our remembrance and teaches us all things. I pray that the Spirit will continue to make me a woman of understanding so that I may learn to draw the deep thoughts of the lives He places in my path.

Nina Medrano is a mentor in Transformation Ministry outreach of Church on The Rock in Lubbock, Texas, she resides in the country with her two playful Jack Russell Terriers, Daisy and Pepper Jack.

About Nina Medrano

Nina has served the Lord Jesus Christ in Children’s, Women’s and Prison ministries in Texas, Mexico and Italy. Currently, she lives in West Texas and writes for her church Women’s Ministry blog at:


9 Responses to “Becoming a Woman of Understanding”
  1. Delia Mabry says:

    AWESOME…Nina, you definitely inspire me to become more yielded to the Spirit of our heavenly Father. I, too, want to be a woman of understanding in HIS hands.

  2. Mary Gutierrez says:

    Ms. Nina,

    WOW! The article is awesome. I too want to be a woman of understanding that is sensitive and obedient to the Holy Spirit. You are a magnificent writer and mentor. Thank you for sharing. I pray that you have a great and blessed day filled with supernatural favor! Love you.

  3. Veronica says:

    That was beatiful and inspiring may god feel your heart with more of his holy .spirit

  4. Michelle Ramirez says:

    It is amazing to consider even surrendering your very interactions to the Lord as a vessel and woman of understanding. It inspires me to do this with even those you think couldn’t be moved. But it is our willingness to yield to the Spirit and let Hime make us more understanding towards others. Thanks Nina.

  5. Rick macias says:

    Inspiring testimony. Would that we could all be as meek a tond humble as to alow the holy spirit full access to ourselves to glorify our god.
    Great job!

  6. Jane Ann Casey says:

    Hi Nina

    I believe this is how God wants to use all of us if we will just stop and let Him direct our words and actions to people around us that are hurting. This a a beautiful story to start off the Christmas season. I just want to commend you on letting His Word light your path and direct your steps and allowing the Holy Spirit to love through you. You inspire me!

  7. Pastor Robert Renteria says:

    Nina, you were a perfect example of how God desires to use us, your testimony should inspire many believers. God Word tells us that His sheep know His voice; If we would only listen! If we would totally surrender to the Holy Spirit and ask Him for His understanding I believe He will give it to us Thank You for sharing, it was very inspiring

  8. Gloria Ayers says:

    So many times, we get anxious and think we are wise and can help someone with pointers and helpful hints, but unless we stop, and ask God to speak through us, we’ve missed the greater good we can be in someone else’s life, if we only realize that we need to be led by the Holy Spirit in all of our conversation. Let God speak through us, and not think that we are so wise in our own understanding. Nina, thanks for reminding us and bringing that home to us. Gloria Ayers

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